Monique has many gifts, Paramount of which being her willingness to show up in raw authentic service to those held in her space. Her magic is less In being a teacher and more in making the choice to live life as a teaching.~Eugene Hedlund

I have spent the last 8 years of my life diving further and further into “living life as a teaching” as well as gathering in depth techniques and experiential knowledge. I have been blessed to co-facilitate with and receive mentoring from some of the top experts in Tantra, Relationship, Compassionate Communication, and Sex Education. The support of masters of our era combined with my own journey, have given me expertise in areas of Spirituality, Compassion, Authenticity, Energy work, and Vulnerability. I offer an exceptional synergy of these wisdoms. I spend 80% of my time on the road leading playshops and doing private sessions to communities all over the US and Canada. One of my unique talents is being able to bridge several different modalities and offer it in a playful, liberating, experiential manner. Everyone in attendance will leave with new references points of just HOW GOOD they really can feel in their own body. If you would like for me to come to your town, come play with YOUR community, let’s talk. I need a place to host me, your friends/community (ideal number is 20-30), and an open hearted desire to more fully remember your own unique essence. Scroll through the list of classes below that I offer, or check out the calendar for when I will be at a city close to YOU. Hope to play/connect/expand/remember with you soon.

“Monique Darling is a rare type of human. She has the ability to be completely vulnerable and completely available at the same time, giving anyone in her presence opportunity to assess the purity of their own consciousness and intentions. The concept of being “truly” free is infinitely multifaceted, and deserves a template to experience it’s fullest definitions. Monique is able to effortlessly create such a template. Any and all that have the divine pleasure of interacting with her are blessed.” – Priestess Raven

The following is a list of playshops I have taught all over the country and Canada. I would love to bring them to you.


I have facilitated 100′s of Cuddle Parties. I am as passionate about the Cuddle Party experience today, as I was at the first one I attended, over seven years ago. YES! It helped me reclaim my voice and I am passionate about helping others do the same. As a matter of fact, I have really learned that cuddle party rules are rules to live your life by, and it’s changed everything for me.


This event was born out of my passion to create a space beyond competition and comparison, for sisters to be able to drop into and find that unique, ultra-powerful place where we find nothing but joy and empathy for one another. In this 4 hour long exploration includes extremely powerful boundary-setting practices, then exercises with other women to help us to bond, practice surrender, and play like children, and finally, guided instruction and Sensual Massage. At the end of the day, you’ll feel like a goddess: empowered in your sexuality, supported by your sisterhood, and ready to manifest all that you dream and all that you are.


This was the first workshop that I created. I have lived in the realm of the energetics since I was three years old, and its one of my favorite playgrounds to share with the world. At this playshop you will be guided through playful activities (fully clothed) to further awaken your energetic capacity and range of ecstatic experience and then open the container to practice with each other or by yourself in whatever manner supports you best. This event is intended to be sensual, and energetically sexual, but not physically sexual. As such it is a clothing required event. Bring a partner, find a partner there, switch partners, or experience the course on your own.